CAUSES OF DIVORCE

According to almost every society, marriage can be regarded as sacred and thus, starting a family is one of the most significant steps in life . Apart from maintaining the tradition, many people prefer to get married and lead their lives together due to their mutual love and respect. As nothing can exist forever, some of the pairs have a tendency to part ways owing to a myriad daily problems. Although some of them break up with each other consciously, the majority of them are more likely to be obsessed with less serious faults and to end their relationships without batting an eye, which can be considered a shame.

One major reason for divorce, and also a very common one, is a lack of communication. As far as recent family relationships becoming further removed  from traditional values are concerned, it can be easily asserted that most people have more of a tendency not to care about each other and to live alone together as  strangers. As many people devote themselves to achieving  a career or to getting a promotion, to put it another way, as people consider financial success to be more important, they become alienated from their family. Most people do not even know their partners very well not because of personal characteristics but misjudgment. Indeed, not knowing or being sure about the necessary responsibilities of marriage or getting married to someone without knowing him/her completely  causes people’s marriage to suffer.

When it comes to financial issues, many people prefer to provide for themselves rather than being in need of help . Without any doubt, to today’s people, money is the one thing to make people  comfortable and a slight financial problem in marriage may easily lead to divorce. Although such a situation demonstrates the weakness of the relationship , it gives  rise to financial independence and self-confidence . Equally important, in contrast to the past, thanks to changes in women’s roles in the society, most women have a right to make a decision and do whatever they want independently. Aside from financial problems, in case of marital difficulties ranging from domestic violence to physical or emotional abuse, women are capable of  leaving their husbands without any restriction.

All things considered, couples may decide to divorce as they decide to dedicate their lives to their partners in the modern world. As for a host of problems including the lack of interest and financial problems, it is not an exaggeration to say that the welfare level in developing countries and the level of importance  people give to marital difficulties are of prime importance when  promoting  community relations.